Each X-Diva has had that one special characteristic
that the Avenue-X community has come to love, be it passion, intensity,
humor...what do you feel is your uniqueness?
Well I personally don't know if I could pick just one characteristic.
It's not just one, is it, that makes us unique? It's the unique
combination of all of these things... passion which I have to
the nth degree, humor, warmth, caring, as well as a raging sex
drive... :)
Tamara, tell us how you got started in the hobby?
My girlfriend Bebe out in Chicago had been escorting for
a while, and told me about it. (She is http://www.bebedoll.net
if you're ever in Chicago!) So I started lurking on
the boards. At the time I was single and in a stage of being very
willing to
experiment. I'd just left a relationship where we did a lot of
swinging... so I thought, why not? And gave it a try. :) I never
looked back!
Was your first experience all you thought it would be?
I was incredibly lucky in that my first experience was with
a really, really nice man. I violated just about every rule of
safety there is, but at the time I really did not know better!
I did talk to him for a long long time before I went, but I knew
nothing about this person REALLY. Luckily he was a very nice guy
and we had a fabulous time. Afterwards I told him it was my first
time and he didn't believe me! :) He still IMs me once in a while,
but I haven't seen him again... yet!
You have a very in-depth Fantasy page on your web site,
is any one of them your favorite, and why?
Probably the slavegirl fantasy, as I tend to be, naturally
submissive. It's part of what makes me who I am, I have a very
strong desire to please people...which works very well for me
in this industry! So when I say that I like everything, I really
do mean it...really what it translates to is... whatever really
makes YOU happy, is (truly, honestly) going to make me happy.
(Within the boundaries of safe play!)
Speaking of fantasies, what is the best way a person
may approach you with a specific fantasy?
Just ask. I'm usually very flexible about fantasy discussion
vs. discussion of some specific things. Roleplay via email is
LEGAL! :) And be forthcoming,open and honest, with your screening
info... that is always a big help, shows you are serious and your
intent is good.
I know you just love toys! Which is your favorite, and
which is highest on your wish list?
My favorite right now is still my hitachi... *sigh*... Even
tho Simone called it my "blender," I must say she seemed
to enjoy it as well. Tonie is next on my list!
(hehehehehhehehe!) I also love the japanese vibrators that have
the little vibrator thing on the clit and the dildo rotates? You
know those things? Often called pearl vibes... but most sites
list them under "japanese." I'd love a new one! My old
one fell apart. Literally! LOL!
Some of your admirable qualities are your complete honesty
and openness as displayed in your accurate pics and discussion
posts. How does this honesty and openness affect your experiences
in the hobby?
I think I've had overwhelmingly positive experiences in the
hobby. I have never had anyone be disappointed in my appearance,
which is really what I am striving for. I want you to know exactly
what you're diving into ahead of time! ;) I cannot imagine why
anyone would think they can "get away with" lying in
their pics... after all, the gent is going to SEE YOU, isn't he?
LOL! Especially for those of us who are bigger girls, I think
it's very important to be honest about yourself. And confident!
Gents appreciate both, I think.
I've read many a post about your love for animals. What
pets do you have?
I have two dogs, a foxhound and a beagle. They are my babies!
Wonderful, incredible pups with so much personality! I know everyone
says that about their dogs! :) Ask me to see their pic with Santa
from this year! :)
What do you do for excitement outside of your work? What
are your passions?
I love to read, play with my dogs, play on the computer,
design websites (well, that's more work but FUN also!), go to
strip clubs, swing clubs, kink clubs, go see what kind of crazy
trouble I can get myself into.... :) Hehe!
If you could change one thing about the hobby Tamara,
what would it be?
I think, truly, it would be the existence of stereotypes.
When I say that, I mean eliminating the reason stereotypes exist.
It drives me crazy to see escorts constantly portrayed as desperate
drug addicts with no soul. Believe me when I say, I have a soul
and it is HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE and loving every minute! But escorts
are portrayed that way because there are ladies out there who
are in those situations. I cannot imagine the damage it must do
your inner self to be in this 'biz if you do not truly enjoy it.
I wish those ladies could find a path that is kinder to THEIR
souls.
Thanks Tamara! |